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November 29, 2006

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Why is it so hard to let go? Yes, the perceived loss of control can feel threatening and some people just have to have "it" their way. However, the results of collaborative engagement have multiple benefits: generally better ideas (remember the old adage two heads are better then one?); synergistic growth; increased trust even if incremental; and more. Letting go and reaching out in a safe place are crucial for f2f and virtual human interactions. Maybe it is the wonder about safety (physical, emotional, intellectual, fiscal) that drives the need for control.

Well said, Amanda. Does the need for safety drive the need for control? Hmmm. That's a deep one. I may have to do a longer post on that. Might be a chicken/egg thing. If safety is removed, you will want to take control. If control is removed, you will feel unsafe? Remember, trusting (giving up control) by definition involves risk (less safe).

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